Calculations, Celebrations, and Contraceptives…

It is a 3C Monday… check it out

After last months slight pregnancy scare I am now somewhat more aware of my cycle.  I actually know the first day of my last period (and maybe now I will keep track).  During the scare I found sites that had ovulation calculators and estimates of due dates (I knew subconsciously that these were available but had no inclination or reason to visit them till now).  So now I can check in to see when I am ovulating and just stay away from sex during that time .  It is not like I don’t own toys… a toy (maybe I should invest in more).

Not only am I ovulating right now (yeah me!) but tonight is the one month anniversary of the first time I had sex.  (WOOHOO!!!)  So how will I celebrate?  Hopefully by being celibate.  We shall see though because from personal experience I am extremely horny during my ovulation and I make some pretty stupid decisions when I am that horny (like have unprotected sex with a total stranger that you meet at a bar…ooops).

On another note I have thought about birth control pills and am not a fan of the thought.  I don’t like taking any kind of prescriptions especially since these “people” (the drug makers) have no idea of the long term effects on women.  So I guess that means looking into other contraceptives.  Which brings me to one of my random trains of thought recently.  I was worried that if I provided the condom (since I really know nothing about condoms) what if I pick one that doesn’t really suit the guys taste… then I realized that if the guy wants a certain condom he should provide it and if he doesn’t then the one I provide should be for my pleasure… it is only fair.  Now I just have to find a condom I find pleasurable and keep some with me in case of emergency, stupidity, ovulation, drunkenness… whatever.

~ by jwlrose on June 23, 2008.